Obstacles are Detours in the Right Direction, introducing the pre-launch of Grandpa's Good Earth! MountainModernLife.com

Obstacles are Detours in the Right Direction

True confession, this “RV Adventure” has not been anything like I expected.

Back in 2015 when we first made the decision to buy a motorhome, renovate it, and travel the country in search of a place to settle down, I envisioned a simplified life filled with mountain views, campfires, and clarity in my business that would help alleviate overwhelm and stress.

I was basically daydreaming of an Instagrammer’s perfectly curated, wanderlust-worthy collection of photo squares. I didn’t expect life to be perfect by any means, but I expected to explore and share more than we have.

Obstacles are Detours in the Right Direction, introducing the pre-launch of Grandpa's Good Earth! MountainModernLife.com

Wherever you go, there you are

The overwhelm I carried only seemed to intensify after we hit the road in the Fall of 2016, and the anxiety I never even knew I had prior to RV’ing, began to show up. Then came the battle of self-love.

There are days I’m in awe of the majestic places we’ve visited and the RV community that has welcomed us with open arms, but traveling in less than 300 square feet has turned out to be more of an inner journey than an outer one.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t regret our decision to go tiny, in fact, it’s turned out to be the adventure I didn’t know I needed.

Life happens regardless of where and how you live

Sharing an RV with your spouse, 2 cats, and a dog is not always easy. Far from it. I know this lifestyle can be romanticized in some ways, but life happens regardless of where you live.

Most days I’m blissed out thinking about how happy I am we chose this unconventional way of life, and other days I’m cursing the unreliable internet connection, our tiny kitchen, lack of privacy if we’re staying at an RV park, annoying flying bugs that manage to sneak in every so often, and that our house is a disaster 5 minutes after we clean it.

The truth is, you take the good with the bad, the challenges with the victories and at the end of the day, you decide what ultimately makes you happy.

Our original travel plan was to spend a couple of weeks visiting family in the midwest before heading to the PNW, an area of the US we had never been and were excited to explore. Then we’d head to Canada and Alaska and it would be amazing!

However, life had other plans in mind…

Obstacles are Detours in the Right Direction, introducing the pre-launch of Grandpa's Good Earth! MountainModernLife.com

Obstacles are Detours in the Right Direction

I still laugh when I think about the time we finally began to head West (a year after we officially hit the road), only to end up stuck at a repair shop for several months because our RV was hit by a semi-truck at a rest stop (we wouldn’t have McNally if it wasn’t for that detour!). Or how Eric somehow managed to camp host for an entire year instead of the 3 months we had planned. And how by the time we finally did make it to Washington, it was nearly winter and we only stayed a couple of months because the dreary weather took a toll on me mentally, and I found myself missing family more than ever.

I had spent 2 years practically begging Eric to visit the PNW, trying so hard to control our itinerary, which by the way only made me feel like a failure when it didn’t pan out the way I wanted, and then I was the one asking if we could head back to Georgia before Christmas.

Yup, I never saw that one coming. (We’ll be back someday, the timing just wasn’t right!)

This RV adventure has had more detours than I can count, but looking back it’s easy to see they were all opportunities. Opportunities to learn, to grow, to deepen relationships, to improve our health, our marriage, to practice resilience, forgiveness, self-love, and to learn when to let go.

I recently listened to a podcast from Gabby Bernstein, that was recorded back in 2017 but re-published last week and it resonated with me in a new way. I had listened to her audiobook, The Universe Has Your Back, in December 2016 and have enjoyed her teachings ever since.

In this specific podcast, she talks about 5 Steps to Spiritual Surrender and seeing the opportunities in life detours. I don’t remember what I was going through the first time I watched the video, but this time around I felt overcome with emotions (in a good way!) and it reminded me of this quote:

“The most important thing you can do in your life is what you are doing now.” – Deepak Chopra

There’s a reason Eric and I now joke that we’re on “Nomadic Standard Time”, and it’s because we’ve learned to stay flexible with travel plans, or any plans for that matter.

Don’t let Your plans get in the way of Life’s plans

Back when we originally hit the road in our RV, what was supposed to be a couple of weeks in Wisconsin with Eric’s extended family somehow turned into several months.

We parked our RV on the farm while we acclimated to “RV life”, and I learned to appreciate the beauty of the rolling hills and grassy fields, despite a lack of mountain views.

Naturally, we did run into some hiccups during that visit, the biggest being uninvited guests…mice!

We later found out his family has used their Peppermint Essential Oil to keep mice out of their storage vehicles and farming equipment for generations – they’ve been farming since 1857 and distilling mint since the 1950s.

Those turn of events led to conversations with his family about selling their Peppermint Oil to the public. Here we are 2 years later, and Grandpa’s Good Earth has officially launched.

Obstacles are Detours in the Right Direction, introducing the pre-launch of Grandpa's Good Earth Peppermint Essential Oil! MountainModernLife.com

It’s just another reminder that we don’t always know what opportunities lie ahead or understand the challenges we may be facing. And we don’t always have to know, we just have to be available to the lessons to be learned or doors to be opened.

Bell Mountain views from Hiawassee, Georgia - MountainModernLife.com

Be at Peace with the Path You’re on

The other day I was walking McNally and had this overwhelming sense of gratitude as I reflected on the last couple years in the RV.

For the first time in a long time, I’m not overly concerned with what other RV’ers are doing, what other bloggers are doing, or even what I’m not doing because for the first time in a long time I feel a sense of peace, even amongst the chaos.

Most importantly, I feel like the passion has been reignited inside me.

The passion that helped me launch this website years ago has been slowly drifting away during our travels as I’ve become overwhelmed and confused with the direction we were going. But that passion has been slowly creeping back in as I find clarity, and it feels so good!

I feel my soul coming back to me and a sense of peace with the path we are on.

Taking time to re-listen to Eckhart Tolle’s teachings in A New Earth has certainly helped me get here (he’s also helped me work through my CRPS pain back in 2012).

2 years ago I wouldn’t have been able to enjoy these moments because I would have been wishing I was somewhere else. A lot has changed since then, the most important being that I’m now able to be content wherever we are.

That’s a great feeling, let me tell ya! I don’t know what lies ahead, but I do know it’s important to cherish our own journey in life (especially the detours) and be grateful for the struggles that have made us stronger.

If you’re considering the transition to RV life, are currently in thick of it, or are simply going through a difficult time, I hope this post will serve as a gentle reminder to give up some of the control you may be holding onto and instead see the obstacle as a detour in the right direction.

Remember to enjoy your path even if it doesn’t look like anyone else’s. Especially because it doesn’t look like anyone else’s.

Comments

  • Mom

    Katie and Eric, we are so proud of you. I just read your post and you both have come a long way. Love you and so glad you are working with the fam!!

    June 9, 2019
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  • Dad

    I hope you see the amazing young woman you’ve become and know just how much I love you. Wonderful post, you are so gifted.

    June 9, 2019
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  • Tami Forbes

    Thank you for sharing Katie! Your rv home is so beautiful! You are incredibly creative and such An inspiration! i cant wait til the day my husband and i are brave enough to take a leap of faith and live in an rv!

    Im heading to your essential oil site To check it out too!

    June 9, 2019
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  • Caiping Su

    Very good post! I enjoyed reading it.

    June 10, 2019
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  • Kathy Walsh

    Been following you since the beginning. Please give the PNW another chance! We are having a most beautiful spring! Try mid June before school is out next year if possible. You WON’T regret it. Moved from southern california in 1968 (not my choice) and wouldn’t live anywhere else . . . Well tuscany would be a thought, but truly we live in such a beautiful place. We live very close to the canadian border, On an island! Bliss!!

    June 10, 2019
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  • denise eichorn

    Loved this newsletter! Thank you for sharing. i will be ordering the peppermint oil. Another book you might want to read “the celestine prophecy” by james redfield. Amazing insight that opened my eyes to the ways of the universe 🙂

    June 10, 2019
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  • Alaskangalb

    This is perfect timing on reading this..we just had major blows and had to push back full time start date. I felt like a failure and so angry over it. But…gotta REALIZE what happened was out of my control, reconfigure and make a plan C or a plan D if have to. Haha.

    Awesome news on family venture and good luck to you all.

    June 16, 2019
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  • Melissa Allam

    What a great way to look at the life detours and all! My husband and I live fulltime in a 30 ft travel trailer so I understand a lot of what you mentioned here. It’s glorious and frustrating and growth and gratitude all in one little tiny home package. Your RV is beautiful! You and your husband work well together and did a fantastic job! I have watched your vlogs. Good to see that you have persevered and saw a new creative venture to work on. I have found that the RV life always makes me take a step back and look again for what I might have been missing that is right in front of me. Blessings to you and your new clarity!

    July 15, 2019
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  • Ashley M.

    I’m not sure how I missed this post last summer. Of course I knew most of the story, but reading it today it especially speaks to me because I have been feeling kind of unsure of where I should be headed in a business sense as well as personally. I love my business and especially the freedom it brings, but I do kind of feel that initial passion waning. I feel like it’s time for either a new project or a new phase, so I’m trying to remain open to what that might be. I have a few ideas and am just putting one foot in front of the other. Regardless, I love the reminder to “be at peace with the path you’re on.” I think I struggle with wanting to control everything too and I need to just be okay with where I am instead of worrying about where I’m not. Anyway, thanks for these thoughts, even though I’m reading them a bit late. 🙂

    November 14, 2019
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